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Hello and welcome. My name is Phil I could be in this is the healing centre, a series of podcasts of the Free Spirit solopreneurs heart centred entrepreneurs and changemakers leading the New Age world. We are unlearning and releasing echoes of what no longer serves us as we expand into new possibilities. On this week's episode, we're diving into healing with the twin flames energy. And I personally download on what is the twin flame energy? And what is that that energy feels like? Why are they not always joyful, blissful, but rather turbulent. Some people like to think that twin flames union should be the most beautiful thing. And if they're not how to navigate this turbulence, we also dive into why this union can be so much more significance to our physical human journey here on this earth. And why this union is a spiritual initiation that is part of our spiritual journey in itself. This week's episode is both a moment of reflection, and also a pure channelling for you. So sit tight, and enjoy. In this episode, I want to dive into the topic around twin flames energy. And specifically what is calling forth to be downloaded on is this healing with the twin flame energy. Originally, when I felt called to do this topic in my ego way, stake and ego state I felt so I thought that this was going to be the usual podcast where I bring on board and other experts and ask them questions around twin flames. And the more I tried to do that, the more things didn't go according to plan, the more I thought, okay, I found the experts and experts to talk on this, then something will happen. And as I continue to fill into it, the thing that came to me was perhaps maybe this is something for me to do, this is something for me to download on. So this is why I'm calling it a download because this episode right here is almost what we call a channelling and trusting that whatever needs to come through is going to come through and that it's coming from a higher states of consciousness. Now in a way I know why this topic kept on coming to me to do as a podcast, but in another way I also do not know why I explained this. So this topic around twin flames this idea of twin flames is something that's been in my own consciousness for for years and it's something that I feel that I've experienced and even before I experienced that and
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I always used to have this almost this urge to learn about twin flames and the more I learned about it the more I always got excited and it just I just come alive just you know diving into this topic, it felt like something was coming for me at that time. So this was years ago and I dived into twin flame. So what is twin flame? So what are the characteristics How do you know if you find your twin flames and and it just felt amazing. And the reason why was because I I personally think now is because at that time I was calling in my own twin flame. So that topic and diving into that. I knew that it was bringing me back home into something. So I understand why now I'm feeling called to do a podcast on twin flames because it's it's a topic and same energy that I can really resonate in. And I have a really a funny, or not funny, but an interesting story. They're also about some went out before I connected with my real twin flames. And something that happened. And I'm going to share with you in a moment. But the other reason why I'm not sure why I'm being called to do this, as we're doing this now on this podcast is, I feel like perhaps maybe some things will come through that I don't even know about, I feel like the place that this message is coming from is not my own physical self, it's, it's, like I say it's a channelling and something wants to come through. So that side I don't smell. So let's dive into the twin flames energy, inhaling with it, oh, my gosh, I love this. Okay, a
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few years ago, and I get time wrong, I really do get time wrong, I think I get lost in time. So I might be wrong with this. I feel maybe it's about five years ago. Yeah. About five years ago, I went to Bali, one of my trips to Bali. And this one was specifically a retreat, it was a retreat where I went on a retreat. And it was a spiritual kind of retreat, where we do a lot of in our inner child work, we dive into a dive into like spirituality, through dance, through meditation, we do a lot of somatic work, and etc, etc. And it was about two weeks retreats. And it was the most amazing experience of my life. I was so in the state, I was like fully, like fully connected to something, it was on this retreat that I I feel I truly connected to what my womb space. And I also got this calling to start to do womb work for other women to start to use the energy of the womb. So this is how powerful the retreat was, it was also on this retreat that I decided I wasn't going to continue with, with my video production company that I wanted to just truly follow my purpose, like follow my sole purpose, as a way of living life as a way of giving back as a way of truly just being in congruence with all that I am. And it was a scary decision to just say no to the video work because I had to come back home to the UK, and told my business partner then that I didn't want to do the business anymore. Even though you know, he had put money into it, it wasn't something that I took lightly. But on the retreat, that trip to Bali, something changed in me something shifted in me that anything else that was not in alignment with that energy, I just couldn't hold. So it was a really powerful retreats was really powerful time in Bali. And one of the things that happened on that, on that trip was this time when we were doing a meditation, and everybody was lying down, I don't remember exactly what meditation we're doing or for what purpose, but I remember going deep into this meditation and calling forth or stepping into what felt like this twin flame union and I saw it's so clearly what I feel twin flame is all about. So, some people will say that you know, a twin flame is is almost like a splits aspect of your soul you know, a second half or feel a split of the same so, etc, etc. So essentially, I see twin flames as is I say it's almost as a energetic reflection of yourself. It's an energetic reflection of an aspect of your soul. And the reason why I, I feel this so deeply is because I saw it in this meditation. Without asking for rights, I saw this beautiful state of myself. And this other aspects of my soul, like the masculine aspects, all coming into one that made one, but also it was also separate, it was like this two beautiful energies
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coming together, communing together, and then separating. And I felt also very clearly that I was like, the feminine and the other side was like the masculine. And, you know, I cannot really put into words, what I saw in that vision, and that vision for me was very clear that that was a twin flame union, it was so powerful it was so it was so high feeling, it was just, you're so colourful, the blue, the orange, I can still see, it's clearly now even, I speak to you right now. And the, this was happening on top of like, an ocean. So I was like, by the beach, and there's two souls coming together was like, on top of like, if you can imagine, it's like, you're by the page on a beautiful, massive expensive page. And then you see these two energetic beings, like just merging together above the water, it was so powerful, I cannot even I can't really puts the energy with words. So coming out of that trance, I knew what that was, I knew that was, that was me on higher consciousness, reconnecting to my own twin flame on another plane. And I felt it's when I came out that, you know, this union that I could see on that connection, that higher consciousness on that level, because I just be shown it, I would, I would feel that in our experience that in the physical reality, I just knew it, and then live in Bali. And coming back to the UK, there were other things that were, you know, that were happening, that I felt was related to the vision that I saw. So, I started to have dreams of this man of a man that I never really quite saw his face, I will have various dreams, in different scenarios, sometimes they are very silly, like, you know, he goes into a car, and then it goes into one door opens the other door and then leaves there will be episode where I will see this, this this masculine, this masculine come into my life, and somehow he will leave or I was his face in like in just different different ways. Same, the same thing over and over again, I kept on dreaming about this masculine bein. And I knew that was
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that was bringing me closer and closer to this twin flame of mine. And this is one of the characteristics that many people talk about with twin flames that, you know, you might start to dream about your twin flames, about your twin flame before you actually meet them in the physical reality. Because, you know, when we go into the dream states, we, we it's like, we foresee things that will happen when we go into the dream state. We see things that you know, are already happening for us, but maybe we can see it with our physical eyes. And the dream states is one of the places that you know, we can really tap into we can really tap into our psychic ways of being. So I kept on seeing this masculine in trains like in such different ways. And this is one of the characteristics when you're about to connect with this twin flames. You perhaps maybe go through this episode of seeing them over and over again. So perhaps maybe you can even like really relate to this. So that's one of the characteristics I feel that happens a lot with twin flames energy. So the twin flame is an aspect of, of our own true soul self is a reflection, when we connect to our twin flame on this physical plane, it's almost like and this is how I feel it to be, it's almost like we are reflecting back to us and aspect of our own soul. And I love that. Which brings me into why it's why this union with our twin flame on this physical level, it's a healing thing. It's like a healing journey, I almost, I would say is one of the most profound experience anybody can go through. And, you know, sometimes that experience is not like the most beautiful and the most ecstatic and the most joyful experience, because some people believe that the twin flame union actually should be a beautiful thing should be like a really joyful, blissful Union. But sometimes that is not the case. And the reason why it's not the case is because if you think about it, because the twin flame is essentially a mirror in back of an aspect of us. That's what it is, it's, you know, like I said, you know, some people say this a split out in another part of our soul. Another half of us, we're mirroring back aspects of us. And if we meet our Twin Flames in momentum of this lifetime, where we have a lot of work to do a lot of inner work to do, it's also very likely that what we're mirroring back to ourselves through our twin flames, and not things that feels in alignment, and not things that, you know, will put us in into, like this blissful, joyful state. Okay, so it could be that, you know, we're still struggling with our ego aspects, that we still have inner child wounds, you know, wounds around abundant men to wounds around self confidence, being not feeling worthy, not being good enough, etc, etc, if we still have all this work to do, it is very, very likely that this union with a twin flames are gonna be reflecting all the work that we need to do back to us. And I believe this is when the twin flame union can be so turbulent and so like, painful experience, so instead of it being a beautiful union, it becomes a really challenging relationship. And twin flames, you know, like most people say, do not have to be
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it'll have to be like a lover or romantic relationship, that can be any type of relationship I actually believe, but I also almost feel that most times they are this romantic love relationships, this is my feeling on it. Because when we're in that relationship, and a and all these things are reflected back to us, that can be so intense, that can be so intense. And that's why sometimes this twin flame union actually a very intense times in our lives. So when I connected with the person that I felt was my Twin Flame, all the signs was there for me, for me to
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you know, for me to feel that that person was was a reflection of my Twin Flame at that particular moment. You know, the dreams before he came in the physical reality, all the dreams, like I mentioned, I was like just having those dreams, like constantly seeing him in those streams. And then also then, when he showed up there was almost like this instance recognition. So when you meet with your twin flame, you're just gonna know there's almost this instant recognition with this person. It might even be it doesn't mean that you know, you can like absolutely just like fancy that person and you're like, oh my god, you know, I'm in love. No, it's a different kind of recognition, where you Just feel at home, you just feel at home with this person. And I totally just felt that, like, just felt at home. And this is one of the characteristics with his twin flame union. And I believe that because of the way that, you know, we meet our Twin Flames and the feelings that are also involved, many people always like to think that that union should then be a beautiful Union. But then when you then go into the relationship, and we have so much work like we are on this, on this, we are at a certain stage in, in our journey, where we say have loads of inner work to do, then that relationship is going to be very challenging, you know, you're going to experience another characteristics that people talk about, which is that, you know, one of them runs and one of them chase, you know, the runner and the chaser, because really, most cases, most times, both of you are still doing the work. So there's always one that will want to like leave the relationship because they cannot handle it, they cannot handle the intensity of the emotions, they cannot handle the intensity of the argument, the intensity of that energy. So one always wants to like just leave, and then this one, that's probably the the one that runs towards the one that is running, to keep everything like you know, to keep the relationship going. And perhaps maybe sometimes that can switch, or one of the characteristics of that is this run in this chaser, because of the intensity of that type of relationship. This is so very, very, always very common. And then, you know, the twin flame union, usually, for those people that are still doing the work, it's like the split up, but they always find ways to come back together. They always always find ways to come back together, and then maybe they'll split up again. And then somehow they're back together. Because there is this magnetic pool and push in that relationship. And this is so like, it sounds fun. But it's so not fun. Because both aspects of the of the flames, they have work to do. So the key here, I've learned with this, run and chase, run and chase, if you find that you are the runner. Yeah, if you find that you're the runner, the one that cannot like, take the intensity, and you have to leave. There are lessons. Yeah, there are lessons to their lessons around, being grounded, to actually do the work in that container, instead of trying to run and find in thinking that the grass is greener on the other side. So there are some lessons with finding grounding. And learning about becoming whole, and finding oneself in that container before one leaves. And then for the chaser, the person that is chasing and trying to like get the other person back and find that they're the one that's always chasing, there is a lesson there with finding self worth. And knowing that, you know, you're just absolutely good enough, you know, by yourself in yourself as a being as a soul and finding this, this this worthiness on your own. So those are like two big lessons I find with the chaser and the runner. What happens is that when you are in that union, because it's so intense, sometimes, even if you have the purse if you want if you want to have done a lot of spiritual work or in a work, you can really think clearly when you're in the situation, because it can be so intense.
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But But this union this twin flame union, the main reason for it is spiritual growth. It's a catalyst for helping us come back into our true power. Come back into finding ourselves again, and come back into wholeness. And this again is one of the reasons why It can be so, like, so intense and so not in bliss and joy. And like, in alignment, as some people think, a twin flame union in this physical reality is a catalyst for spiritual growth is a catalyst for, for spiritual evolution. It's one of the main catalysts that we have to evolve. And if you ever have the opportunity to experience this, in this lifetime, you are either being brought back, you know, you're bringing that catalyst to help you evolve. Or perhaps for some people, they've already done this journey so many times in previous lifetime, that when they then reconnect with that twin flame in this lifetime, it's, it's, it's more of a beautiful thing. And they don't have that, that running chaser experience, they don't have this, this very, very
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catastrophic relationship. So it all depends on where we are in, in our journey to what we experience in our twin flame union. And I truly believe that even if you connect with your twin flame in this lifetime, and then you guys, you guys go your separate ways, and you never meet again, that you will continue to do that over different lifetimes. Because there's something that we constantly, you know, tweak, and something that we constantly evolve around, as we change as we evolve as we become more home. Because I actually do not believe that, you know, we're here for one lifetime. And that's it, I believe, like the, the spiral, where we go around in, you know, we go around this spiral this around repeating the same thing, the same thing with five times we do it and then we do it over again, as we heal, and go through our damage. So you know, and the, you know, wherever you are, with your twin flames will really give you an indication on where you are with your healing journey. So the twin flame union, like re like reconnecting to this, or actually has never reconnected, bring forward, this reflection of an aspect of your soul in your twin flame. It's a very, very healing process. It's a catalyst for healing, even though it is a times can be painful. Because one of the reasons it's also painful is if you think about it, when the union splits, like when they go their separate ways. It can be the most painful thing anyone has ever experienced. It will actually feel physically, like an aspects of your soul and aspect of you is missing. And this is why again, for some people, they actually awaken the Kundalini through a twin flame union, or twin flame separation. This topic, it's so big, it's so huge, so energetic, expansive, that even you know, doing this in this podcast, I feel like I have so much more to download on this energy, because it's so big. The twin flame union when that two aspects comes together, it's so powerful, it's powerful in the sexual energy, because in that sexual energy is so charged up, there's so many things can can come to life. In fact, I believe, you know that that's union sexually could birth planet this is how powerful it is. It's so it's like fireworks. And just as is so powerful in that state. A separation in that in that union can also be so painful, because an aspect of view is like, you feel like an aspect to view has been detached from you, like is missing. And that's how painful it can be. In some people. I've spoken to clients that have experienced that, like actually awaken the Kundalini. If people don't know your Kundalini is like this lifeforce in us is like some people say it's just like this lifeforce that curls around our spine is that In our life force, and when he awakens, he awakens us to life. And for so many people, the Kundalini lies very dominant in them, not awakened. But when he awakened, you would know about it. And one of the ways some people awakening the Kundalini is true, a twin flame union. So the twin flame union is this powerful energy, that's most of us we experience as part of our soul evolution, because it helps us go through this phase of healing, of knowing who we are of going through, like, you know, our wounds, and looking at them, because we're experiencing this in this relationship, and hopefully, being in that position to heal them. So we're coming back into wholeness. And for some people, you know, coming together with your twin flame is like the spark that awakens this lifeforce within you, that transcends everything in your physical reality. And this is why some people will find that when they connect with a twin flame, that things change in the physical reality, it could be that you change your job, you start to follow your true purpose, you become more spiritually aligned,
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you become a better person, you want to do more, for those who help the world, or even that both of you come together to birth something for the world. And this is how powerful this union is. And I can go on and on and on, about the healing properties of a twin flame. Now, whether you know, you're like, Oh, my God, this sounds painful, or you're like, Oh, my God, it sounds so beautiful, or you're like I'm in it's right now. And it's beautiful. And I love it, or I'm in it right now, and I'm on the other side, wherever you are, that is your journey, I don't believe that we can force the journey, or that we can even actually go and search and go in search of our twin flame. I believe more in this energy of like, detachment and acceptance of our own journey. Because wherever you are in your journey, is what is going to pay. So if you're open to your twin flame, and you're already perhaps maybe you're listening to this podcast right now. And the reason maybe is because you're already getting this, this attraction, and this energy, and you're already pulling forward, your twin flames, because I really, truly believe that, when we're in that energy, whether we're pulling it in, or we're already in it, the things around us will be showing us every evidence of that. So as you're listening to this, and you're feeling like I would love to connect with my Twin Flame, and you're really feeling that in your heart, and you're feeling that in your energetics, this is one of the reasons why you're listening to this podcast. And the way forward with that is just to continue to be open to this idea. And wow, so you're open to this idea to continue to work on you. So that when the union comes, it's more of a beautiful union, and not one that you both are still like struggling in your ego states. And you know, being reflected back all the inner work that needs to be done. And if you are listening to this and you are in the twin flame, energy and your union is going beautifully, you know, I like I Hana your journey and I horna all the lifetimes they you've you've done with your twin flame to come to this state of bliss together. And I hope that this union that you are for sure using this energy, for what for for what it truly is, which is an energy that can be so expensive to transform the or wider collective with what you guys bring and birth into this world. So on that notes I have loved like downloading on this. And if you're listening to this and you have your own experience and you want to share with me, message me and drop me a message out I absolutely love to hear your experiences about twin flame, whether it is the healing work, whether is the bliss, blissful aspect of it. I will love and love to hear from you. Thanks for listening. I hope that you enjoyed this episode and that you come back again as usual. So listen to more expensive talks. In the meanwhile, make sure we're connected on one of the social media platforms of your choice, be it Facebook, Twitter, or Instagram. You can use the ads for like happy to connect. And if you have any questions or feedback, or perhaps maybe you have a certain topic you'd love us to cover. please do get in touch with me personally on any of those platforms as I love hearing from you. Like always, would also very much love if you can rate and review this episode, so we can feel your love. And if you love to join our community, do join the solopreneur collective private group on Facebook. Lastly, don't forget, keep spreading the love and never stop the healing. Take care and join me again soon for another episode of the healing centre
